What should I do to my hair?

I am an African American female I have out of control natural hair that is at a nice lenght. I have no idea what to do to it. I was thinking about a perm or relaxer but a lot of people told me that my hair will fall out if I don't get it done every two weeks. I was thinking about a texturizer but I have been told that it wasn't better than a perm. I am sick and tired of individual braids because I have no time to get it done and to take them out. I am confused. I need to know, what is the best thing to do?

What should I do to my hair?

The best thing you can do is go to a professional. Preferably one who'd been recommended to you by someone. Ask your freinds and family where they go. Just make an appt. for a consultation, most reputable salons offer consultations at no charge. Just go in and have a sit down and discuss your concerns with a stylist and let them look at your hair. The hairdresser will be able to give you an idea or two for styles, the best solutions for your styling problems, at home maintenance, salon upkeep, etc. If your hair needs treatments to keep it or get it healthy before you do anything, they'll be able to tell that in a face-to-face consultation. One person's curse is anothers' blessing so let a professional discuss your options with you. You won't be obligated to do anything that day. If you like the stylist and what he/she has to say about your hair you can make an appt. for a later date. If you don't like him/her, just get a consultation with someone else. Good luck.

What should I do to my hair?

hey girl.

perms can make your hair fall out sometimes. but whoever told u that they should be done every 2 weeks is WRONG. u will be ballheaded if u got perms every 2 weeks. at the least, you should wait 6 weeks until tha next perm.

you also can straighten your hair with a flat iron and ware your hair down.